Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto
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Confused When Choosing a Couples
In matters of selecting a spouse, both men and women have the right to choose the right partner. It is known in Islam whose name is 'kufu' (viable and harmonious), and a guardian has the right marriage partner for her daughter to pick someone who sekufu, although the meaning kufu most common among the scholars is co-religionists.
Other meanings such as matches, is also the meaning that can not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On the other hand that choosing a life partner by considering the various sides, provided at a reasonable considerations as well as Islamic, the representation is a necessity of life and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human being, including in choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is the essence of servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.
To further solidify the choice if we are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in the beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times.
Prophet also said, 'He who match his honor with the ungodly he had cut her womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also gave consideration to a sahabiyah who came to him as he requested consideration of two people who would propose, then the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka easy to hit), while the other is that poor people do not have a lot of treasure. " Then the Prophet married her to Zaid bin Harithah.
Source : http://artikel-bahasainggris.blogspot.com/2011/08/confused-when-choosing-couples.html
Conclusion :
If you are confused in choose your spouse should do the praying istikhorah. as often in choosing a life partner a person tends to see the dominant side. was right to see the dominant side, but it would be nice also to establish the accuracy of our choice to Allah for guidance. do not be wrong in choosing a life partner who will take you on a divorce because divorce is one of the most hated by Allah SWT.
In choosing a good spouse should be done with prayers istikharah. sometimes we decide to choose a life partner views of surplus assets. We should not immediately believe it's due to excess. we have to ask for directions to the gods to solidify our choice is one way to pray istikharah.
Spouse who was blessed by Allah SWT is very good. not the blessed of us penglihatn. Because our vision bisalah wrong. Because now the number of women more than men. so watch out for the women in choosing a life partner.
Other meanings such as matches, is also the meaning that can not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On the other hand that choosing a life partner by considering the various sides, provided at a reasonable considerations as well as Islamic, the representation is a necessity of life and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human being, including in choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is the essence of servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.
To further solidify the choice if we are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in the beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times.
Prophet also said, 'He who match his honor with the ungodly he had cut her womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also gave consideration to a sahabiyah who came to him as he requested consideration of two people who would propose, then the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka easy to hit), while the other is that poor people do not have a lot of treasure. " Then the Prophet married her to Zaid bin Harithah.
Source : http://artikel-bahasainggris.blogspot.com/2011/08/confused-when-choosing-couples.html
Conclusion :
If you are confused in choose your spouse should do the praying istikhorah. as often in choosing a life partner a person tends to see the dominant side. was right to see the dominant side, but it would be nice also to establish the accuracy of our choice to Allah for guidance. do not be wrong in choosing a life partner who will take you on a divorce because divorce is one of the most hated by Allah SWT.
In choosing a good spouse should be done with prayers istikharah. sometimes we decide to choose a life partner views of surplus assets. We should not immediately believe it's due to excess. we have to ask for directions to the gods to solidify our choice is one way to pray istikharah.
Spouse who was blessed by Allah SWT is very good. not the blessed of us penglihatn. Because our vision bisalah wrong. Because now the number of women more than men. so watch out for the women in choosing a life partner.
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