My Dreams

Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto
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My Dreams

Since early childhood, I have a dream. I want to be an engineer. For achieve that my dream, I study hard in senior high school. For get mathematical and natural sciences direction. Why??? Because according to people’s opinion that if we get mathematical and natural sciences direction in senior high school, we can entry to agriculture direction at university. Agriculture is match with my dream at that time.

At senior high school, I get mathematical and natural sciences direction. That is very borring., because I must study fisika, chemist, biology, and mathematic. The lesson of mathematical and natural sciences is difficult, so I must study hard.

In reality my life now, I lecture accountancy. Accountancy is match with social studies not mathematical and natural sciences, so my dream for want to be an engineer disappeared. And I try for change my dream. So now my dream is to be an accounting or auditor.

Every day I study accountancy. First time, my try for understand about accountancy is very difficult. But, the end I can understand about accountancy. This matter make me very spirit for achieve my dream. I want to make proud my parents and I want to help study cost of my brother until his lecture. I only can pray. I hope that my dreams come true because life start from dream.

How To Move On From A Bad Relationship

Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto

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Class : 3EB13

How To Move On From A Bad Relationship

It has to end. No matter how painful it is, that time is now. Breaking up is never easy. Deciding to end a relationship, no matter how imperfect it is, will always be emotionally and mentally traumatic. In spite of the imperfections, you did share wonderful and intimate times together.

Like what they say, memories are easy to make but are hard to forget and remembering makes it harder to move on. That person you are saying goodbye to has been a part of you. Detaching yourself from him can be very painful and unimaginable. But like everything else in life, think that this too, shall pass and no matter how hard it is to move on, in the end, things will fall into its place.

"Things do happen for a reason" and "What doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger", these clichés are very important to psyche yourself up to move on from a break up. To move on from a bad relationship, you need to remember and do a few things. First, you have got to put it in your head that it is over.

No more hoping, no more fantasizing that he will call you and get back together. Once you get this into your system, allow yourself to cry your heart out. It’s healthy to cry because you are actually saying goodbye to him and to his memories. Aside from crying, expect that you will be very angry at a certain level.

You will be angry at yourself, at him or to your friend who introduced you to him. Again, this is normal but you have to deal with your anger in a healthy way. Some write, while others talk it out with friends. Some engage themselves into work, others take boxing lessons.

My point is you should have a healthy outlet for all your angst. To move on from a break-up, it also helps if you get rid of anything that reminds you of him. This means removing his number in your cellphone, deleting his pictures in your mobile phone gallery and throwing away all those memorabilia he gave you.

Keeping a remembrance from him can only prolong your state of nostalgia. Don’t torture yourself. Also, if you want to move on from a bad relationship, never romanticize your past. Yes, he was a great lover and he was thoughtful at times but snap out of it! Letting all those mushy things get into your head can make you weak and again make you think twice about the break up.

If you want to move on then guard yourself from romanticizing your past. It helps if you jot down the things that you hate about him or the reason why you broke up with him in the first place. Be ruthless and honest, take this note out when you feel weak and had the urge to call him.

How to get over someone who has been with you for a couple of months or years can be depressing but ones you have learned to take care of yourself without him, its not as bad as you think it is. So if you want to move on take good care of yourself.

Eat right, sleep right, dance, sing, go to the gym, and hang out with friends. If you feel good physically, you’ll feel good mentally and emotionally. Don’t be afraid to move on, it may be the greatest gift that you have given yourself.


Article Source:
http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_4011.shtml

Conclusion :

In a relationship break up is not a difficult thing. someone who broke up it would be difficult to control emotions and anxiety. That causes us to be difficult to release people who have for months or even years with us is because too many good memories with him. Your mindset should be changed, you have to think that the thing else that would happen for a reason, impossible things happen for no reason. You have to move on from a relationship that is not good. One effective way to move from a bad relationship is crying, the crying can vent our emotions and anxiety. We all our frustration in the form of tears, but not too long after that cry because you have to immediately move on.
Broken in a relationship that could reduce our mental. Ways to do after we broke up is: remind yourself that everything is over, no more hope to the people you will ever love them. and most importantly do not recall any of it because you remember it will definitely make you feel sad again. if necessary, remove the phone number in your phone, you can amuse yourself with a trip to the gym or other places that can be you happy. You should immediately move on from a bad relationship

Confused When Choosing a Couples

Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto

NPM : 21209541

Class : 3EB13

Confused When Choosing a Couples

In matters of selecting a spouse, both men and women have the right to choose the right partner. It is known in Islam whose name is 'kufu' (viable and harmonious), and a guardian has the right marriage partner for her daughter to pick someone who sekufu, although the meaning kufu most common among the scholars is co-religionists.

Other meanings such as matches, is also the meaning that can not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On the other hand that choosing a life partner by considering the various sides, provided at a reasonable considerations as well as Islamic, the representation is a necessity of life and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human being, including in choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is the essence of servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.

To further solidify the choice if we are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in the beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times.

Prophet also said, 'He who match his honor with the ungodly he had cut her womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also gave consideration to a sahabiyah who came to him as he requested consideration of two people who would propose, then the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka easy to hit), while the other is that poor people do not have a lot of treasure. " Then the Prophet married her to Zaid bin Harithah.

Source : http://artikel-bahasainggris.blogspot.com/2011/08/confused-when-choosing-couples.html

Conclusion :

If you are confused in choose your spouse should do the praying istikhorah. as often in choosing a life partner a person tends to see the dominant side. was right to see the dominant side, but it would be nice also to establish the accuracy of our choice to Allah for guidance. do not be wrong in choosing a life partner who will take you on a divorce because divorce is one of the most hated by Allah SWT.

In choosing a good spouse should be done with prayers istikharah. sometimes we decide to choose a life partner views of surplus assets. We should not immediately believe it's due to excess. we have to ask for directions to the gods to solidify our choice is one way to pray istikharah.

Spouse who was blessed by Allah SWT is very good. not the blessed of us penglihatn. Because our vision bisalah wrong. Because now the number of women more than men. so watch out for the women in choosing a life partner.

About My Self

Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto

NPM : 21209541

Class : 3EB13

About My Self

Hello,, My name is Vania Putri Rahmanto. I was born in Jakarta 6 October 1991. I live at street Narogong Elok Raya. I am a second child from three child in my family. My sister’s name is Anissa Putri Rahmanto and my brother’s name is Raditya Putra Rahmanto. My sister has work in Panin Bank. My sister graduate from Gunadarma University too. My brother is a student in 8 Senior High School Bekasi.

My hoby is singing. With singing, I feel more relax. I have one favorite singer in Indonesia. My favorite singer is Rossa. According to my opinion Rossa’s voice is the best and her song is nice for my ear. My favourite color is pink. Because pink color is very sweet and girly.

In my life, I want to be useful for anybody. In the home, I usually help my mother for sell at our little shop. Our little shop is selling food, drink and snack. I feel happy, if I can help my mother. And I have one most my favourite. Who is that??? I like angry birds. Angry bird is funny and annoy.

First time, I know about angry birds from the game in computer. I usually playing angry birds game and always game over (hehehehehe)..Every I see angry bird in anywhere. I want to buy that. Until now, I have some angry bird collection. My angry bird collection is angry birds doll, pen, pencil, eraser, ruler, book and map. I still want to add my angry bird collection. Angry bird can make me happy. Although, sometimes my mother ask me like child because I like angry birds, but I keep for collect my angry birds.

Story about true friends

Name : Vania Putri Rahmanto

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Class : 3EB13

True Friends

Once upon a time there lived two great friends in a hamlet near Jaipur. Jay and Vijay had been friends since their childhood. Now they were studying in a college, which was at far distance from their place. In the way they had to cross a river, pass hills and sandy area too. They used to go to college together. Their friendship was famous in college.

One rainy day the two friends set out for college as usual. They were chatting while walking. Perhaps they were discussing some point of atomic theory which was taught on previous day. The two had different opinions. There began heated arguments. This was followed by abusive language by both sides. Things got so bad that in a fit of anger Jay slapped Vijay. Shell shocked Vijay stared at his friend and wrote on sand that “today my best friend slapped me.” Both resumed their walk but now they were silent. Meanwhile they reached the river which was overflowing today. Vijay was not a good swimmer. He stepped into the river but … began to drown and flow with force of water in the direction of the flood. Jay saw this and without thinking for a second jumped into the river. With difficulty he could drag Vijay out of the river. He helped Vijay restore his normal breath. When Vijay became normal, he wrote on a hill that “today my best friend saved my life.”

Jay who was observing all this could not help asking “why did you write it on sand when I slapped you and why are you writing on the hill when I’ve saved your life?” Vijay replied that “we should soon forget wrong done by our friends and dear ones as writing on sand gets erased in no time, but if they do something good for us we should always remember their kindness just as writing on stones is for ever.” Saying this Vijay hugged his friends and two wend to college as if nothing had happened.

Source : http://www.instablogs.com/entry/a-short-story-true-friends/

Conclusion :

Jay and Vijay school and college together. each wanted to go to school they have to cross the river. they always went to school together across the river. when in transit across the river in which they discussed the theory of atoms, but they disagree till the end jay vijay slap, a sudden overflowing of the river water could not swim and vijay, vijay finally sink .. then, jay jumped into the river to save vijay. and jay vijay dragged out of a flooding river, vijay rescued. Even though our friends had done no good to us but he's still our friend Because he will help us in our time of trouble or hit by a disaster.

Friendship that will not be replaced. the ups and downs of friendship there. but when our friends do not do so good to us constantly remember we are not good friends. it should be remembered is either poorly dy remains our friend. at least he never does good to us. prejudge whether it's better than prejudice. however one day we'll need help from our friends

Friends will always be in love and grief. Do not ever count how many bad conduct made ​​by our friend. but remember the good that has been given to us. as the remembrance of the good it will establish a friendship, whereas if given the ugliness it will destroy the friendship. Therefore love the friendship.